For parents and carers
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Pull up a chair. You don't need to be a phonics expert to help your child read at home — five gentle minutes most days will do more than an hour at the weekend. This page is the friendly version.
The single most useful thing
Say the sounds the way your child's teacher does: pure, short, no extra "uh".
- "mmm" — not "muh"
- "sss" — not "suh"
- "t" — a quick tap, not "tuh"
Listen to the tiles on the Reception and Year 1 pages — tap one and the browser will say the sound aloud.
What to do when your child gets stuck on a word
This is the most-asked-about moment, and there's a lovely simple recipe.
1. Wait
Three or four seconds of silence. They might be working on it. Resist the urge to jump in.
2. Sound it out together
Run your finger under the word. Say each sound: sh-o-p. Then sweep and blend: shop.
3. If it still doesn't come, just tell them
Reading at home should feel warm. Tell them the word, re-read the sentence so it makes sense, and carry on. They're learning by doing.
Try not to say…
"Sound it out!" on its own — most children already know they should. "Look at the picture" — guessing isn't reading. Encourage decoding first; the meaning will follow.
Five-minute games for the kitchen table
I-Spy with sounds
"I spy with my little eye, something beginning with mmm." (Not "M".) Sound first; letter-name later.
Robot voice
You speak in a robot voice: "Get your sh-oo-z." Your child translates. Brilliant for ear-training.
Word ladder
Change one letter at a time. cat → cot → dot → dog. Lots of phonics in a tiny game.
Magazine hunt
Choose a sound — say sh. Cut it out wherever you find it in an old magazine. Stick them on a page. Done.
Bath-tub spelling
Foam letters in the bath. Say a word; your child builds it. Add silly bath-time accents for free.
Reading a school book together
School reading books are usually closely matched to the sounds your child has been taught. A good five-minute routine:
- Picture walk — flick through, chat about what's happening.
- Read together — first time through, you can read a tricky page; they take the next.
- One question — "What was your favourite bit?" beats a quiz.
Re-reading the same book is a feature, not a bug. Confidence comes from familiar text.
What to look for at each stage
Reception
Your child should start to hear sounds in words, recognise the letters they've been taught, and read very simple words like cat, map, got.
Year 1
Reading whole sentences. Spotting digraphs like sh, ai, oa. Having a go at words they've never seen, including made-up ones.
Year 2
Reading more fluently and less aloud. Spelling longer words by listening for each sound, even if not perfectly.
Year 3
Reading is now mostly silent and quick. Focus shifts to spelling rules and understanding what they've read.
If you're worried
Talk to your child's class teacher. They'll have observed your child every day for weeks — they're the right first port of call. Ask: "Where would you put my child on phonics? Is there anything I can do at home?" Most teachers will be delighted you asked.